Are you afraid that your partner might leave you? Are you too independent, meaning you never want to ask anyone for help?Do you find it easy to start a relationship, but do you have difficulty with long term commitment?, Do you always fall for someone who is emotional unavailable or distant, abusive, rude or even unfaithful to you?, are you a workaholic, are you a perfectionist, only showing your best self all the time?, do you hardly communicate your feelings to others?,

If you recognise yourself in one or more of these, you might suffer from fear of intimacy or fear of commitment.No worries, you are not alone, most of us do suffer from fear of intimacy first, before we might solve the actual root of the problem.

This video is designed to give you the crystal root cause of fear of intimacy.

Welcome to this video. I’m Tom Nuyens from the Alive academy.com. After having been brought up in a sometimes unsafe and emotional abusive environment, where there was not much room for my emotions, and after having been laughed at for having been very skinny when I was 12, I started to close myself up from my pain, behind a wall of protection.
I used my wall to not let anything or anyone come close to me, out of fear to feel my unsolved pain again.I started relationships easily and wore my mask of pretending being as perfect as I could, but I had difficulties with long term commitment.I chose emotional unavailable, rude, distant, abusive and even an unfaithful partner, all to not have to let them come close to me.I worked hard, again as perfect as possible and never communicated my true feelings or asked anyone for help, all to never let people or things come close to me.Until I eventually cracked and got burned out.After having studied both physical and psychological health it became my mission to help people find liberation, not only from the symptom, but more precisely from the root cause of the symptom. Because only when we know and address the actual root cause of a symptom, such as fear of intimacy, we can heal the root together with its symptoms once and for all. If we try to suppress or run away from the root cause, for example by running away into distractions, like for example with being busy with our phones, than more and new symptoms will arise for example in the form of distant relationships, emotional and physical closeness, etc etc

The actual root cause of our fear of intimacy is ...

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