Are you feeling that different in your husband and you don't feel loved by him? Watch Paul tells you what to do to solve those issues in your marriage.

We hear that a lot and women write in to us and they're very discouraged and they don't understand what happened. And part of the reason for that is that they're living their marriage
the way they see it on TV. You live your marriage really without having learned how to have an amazing marriage, how to have a marriage that makes you happier every single day, and now it's
gotten to this where you're not even feeling loved by your husband. But you did, when you were dating, when you were engaged at least until you were planning the wedding and things started getting shaky which happens to half the people who get married.

Literally, half the people who get married are unsure by their wedding day and they cover it up.
And the reason why is because in our society, we don't understand marriage. We have become so intellectual that we cast aside in the name of intellectuality our very core values. We talk about love but you know Western psychology has a tremendous influence on us and in Western
psychology they consider love to be an abstract idea, an abstract thought. We miss the most important aspect.

Now you're not feeling loved. Is it really love that you're not feeling because you could still be
loving your husband and you would still feel that same love if you were loving him? But what we've done is we've taken these things and we've turned them upside down and miss it, and we call it spiritual materialism. So love is a spiritual thing, you can't touch it. You can't contain it. You can't measure -- it's spiritual. Real love is spiritual. You can't quantify it and then we go, "Well, I don't feel the love." Well, here's a secret about love. This is a secret that I want you to think about in this context. You've seen your children asleep when it's late or it's early and the drama of
the day isn't crowding in and you feel your heart open, and you just feel so much love for your sleeping child.

Your child sometimes will say, "Oh, I love you, mommy." Just out of the blue and your heart will
open up. Well, you're not feeling that love from your child. Your mind is picking up the indicator that your child loves you and your heart opens to them. It's really quite fascinating. We even have turned around this saying, "The only way to get love is to give love." We've messed it up because that's true but it's more simple than what it implies. You don't get love as a reciprocation. You may get more politeness.

If now you're complaining to your husband and you stop, he'll probably stop complaining to you. That reciprocation is important in a marriage. That positive reciprocation but it's not what we're talking about. The love that you want to feel for your husband you will feel when you move the debris from your mind and only give him love then you will feel all the love because the love is already within you.

This topic gets very deep and I don't think that's appropriate for a video but at least I'm giving you a sense of how we approach things. So to deal with what you're dealing with now, maybe you discovered that he's spending more time with other people. Maybe you even suspect he's in an emotional affair or a full-fledged affair, maybe he's just not giving you the time of day and those are different topics but they're important topics. But here's the main point that you're
looking to receive more love for your husband what it's saying and this is the bottom line and the top line.

What you're saying is my marriage is not working because you can't just fix that one aspect.
Your whole marriage -- it's a holistic thing just two people in a space, I call the sacred space of
marriage. It's just two of you but you don't know how to make it come together. You don't know how to make it work and so you're feeling this tug away like you're parting like you don't have
that special connection you used to have. And I'm here to tell you, you can make it come back.
I have a couple of books.

Hopefully, your marriage is not slipping towards a divorce and either of the books will work for you. Look at the reviews on them it's for Breaking the Cycle or Lessons for a Happy Marriage and I'm Paul Friedman, I'm the author. But if your marriage is slipping towards divorce or you're afraid that it is, let's change it. Get either the course for women or talk to your husband and say, "Are you open to an alternative to marriage counseling that I found?" And here you could listen to this or show him other videos that I've put together but do something. Do something. Don't think for a moment that if you do what's right it won't improve. You were given free will, free choice for a reason so you could change your destiny.

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