In this video you will know what borderline personality disorder symptoms or traits can be.
And we will make visible how to help liberating someone with Borderline personality disorder symptoms or traits.You will know the fundamentals how to respond to the borderline personality disorder symptoms in a way that actually helps +
You will get a crystal clear direction how to develop yourself in a way that you are able to become the example that he or she really needs,
But don’t know how to ask for it.
I see so many videos about how to break up with someone with borderline personality disorderor how to recover from someone with borderline personality disorder,
Or how borderline personality disorder is irreversable,
But I see no video that actually help both people liberate themselves completely towards the true loving potential or opportunity that they have together.of course we could leave someone with borderline personality disorder treats, but most likely we will attract a similar kind of relationship, until we learn what we need to learn.As I mentioned in my video about how to liberate yourself when you have borderline personality disorder,One of the biggest pitfalls with labeling a borderline personality disorder, is that it sticks a wrong identity-label upon someone, which makes them more stuck and wrongly believe that there is actually something irreversibly wrong with them.
It’s like labeling our partner with being green, while at the same time trying to help him or her to be green.
Does your partner have Unstable emotions, an unstable sense of self, intense fear of abandonment and rejection, a sense of emptiness inside?Does your partner think in black and white, does your partner idolise and then devaluate you in the same day?
Does your partner feels emotionally overwhelmed, afraid, lonely, first strong but then fragile sometimes?Does your partner have impulsive behaviour?Does he or she have a rollercoaster of emotions, from expansive highs to lows as depression and suicidal thoughts within the same day?Does your partner is edgy sometimes, making you feel like walking on egg shells, expecting a very intense emotional outburst that is very hard to control?If you recognise your partner in one or more of these symptoms, then there is nothing irreversibly wrong with your partner.
It only means that from our birth until know we all experienced painful emotions.
And because we didn’t know how to solve that pain,
We learned to build a wall around our unsolved emotions, by escaping into our constant thinking, looking for distractions from our unsolved pain.We didn’t only build that wall around our unsolved emotions, but also around our untouched and unharmed independently fulfilled stable core too.In other words, we als build a wall around the our core or captain of our ship.Over the years, our emotions were suppressed like a volcano, underneath a thick wall of distractions.
Living with this suppressed volcanon of emotions together with our constant restless thinking looking for distractions away from our unsolved pain,
Makes it only logical to express the symptoms I just mentioned.
The good news is that who your partner really is, is still the untouched and unharmed, stable core, underneath, but he or she has been covered underneath layers of unsolved issues for too long, and therefor he or she has forgotten where to find his or her captain of his or her own ship, therefor he or she acts navigation-less sometimes.
That is basically it.
Now how to help someone, or how to respond to borderline personality disorder symptoms?
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